Watch the clip for yourself.
I'm not much of a Tyler Perry fan, but maaaaan this clip spoke directly to my spirit. People and trees. So simple, yet so profound. There is a reason why there are so many leaves, so few branches, and even fewer roots. This was by far the best analogy to describe a good and bad relationship, in my opinion. It was comedic, but it was definitely comedic truth.
Think about the relationships you have in your life right now. Who do you think of when you place people in these three categories? Who do you consider your roots? Branches? Leaves? Thinking back on a certain relationship I had, it is clear this person is a leaf. He is not meant to stay in my life and I had to accept that once and for all. I've never known a person who was so emotionally disconnected, full of excuses, uncommunicative, and overall just weird. Dude is just a strange cat. I don't understand him and it's not meant for me understand him. Good luck to the person who will understand him. I get it now. I totally see it for what it is. A waste of my valuable time.
I gave myself a hard time for going back to it after the fact. There is no use in beating myself up when I all I have to do is walk away and never look back. Going backwards is the wrong answer. Leave your past in the past and move forward. They are in your past for a reason. Let them stay there. Letting go is hard to do, but Madea said it best. When it gets to a point when I have to choose You or Me? I have to choose me, because simply put, I love me more.
I deserve so much more. I'm a beautiful woman who deserves to be pursued. Yea, Imma a little old school. I believe in chivalry and the "he who finds a wife" ideology. I have so much love to give and I'm patiently waiting for the right "him" to come and scoop me up and share the love with me. There is a deserving someone out there looking for me. I'm just waiting on the day when we finally find each other. Love. I remember it. *smiles*
Thank you, Madea for the insight. I needed this reminder to slap me in the face and wake me the hell up!